August 18, 2008

men and feelings

i was talking about this subject with few friends of mine .

what is it with men and feelings? r they feeling less? or are they too manly to express their feelings ? or is it just hard for them to express? . weather hes Ur father husband , Ur son or even just a person u know.

i actually had to face that and I'm sure most of u did , lets say they expressed their feeling , is it true ? or are they just lying to get attention ?

can u please explain to me why ?

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

mm.. I believe that most men are afraid to express their feelings to girls or people in general because they probably think that us girls would think of them as too sensitive and too emotional if they do so.

On the other hand, I think that most men dont express feelings especially of love/ care for the simple reason that "Men in general cant handle rejection" and the fact that their feelings may be rejected makes them unwilling to express themselves.

On the other hand - shakespear was a man and even so he expressed himself extremly well through words..

Maybe men have a special way of expressin their feelings - but unfortunately we wont know it until they dont tell us so..:Pp

Oranjina fadidra said...

haha its the million k.d question :p

hmm men are a very complex creatures

ZwaiZ said...

well 3an nafsi it is kinda hard to express we think that wer tough enough bas at one point we collaps ya3ni akthar mara i guess eb 7ayati bechait feyha was laman my grandfather passed away and im not shy to say i did 7eta laman khali tezawaj there was some tears of joy ya3ni i can count how many times i cried on my fingers mo 3ashan i dont cry bas wer look at as a solid figure somethin ro rely on thats why i keep my feelings most of the time and only few ppl saw me droppin tears

Anonymous said...

* I am a silent reader of this post :D *

powder said...

amena : i guessthey cant handle rejection , true

oranjina : i agree with u 100 percent , they kind of think the same about us

zwaiz: READ IT AGAIN

Anonymous said...

mafeesh reggala ya ba3ad chabdi ente makoooooo

IntI said...

Only when they fall in love!

Shoush said...

Well, we can't say that men don't have feelings, cuz they're humans, hence they do. It's just us women express them better/more than they do. We're more in touch with them. We like to let them out. Talk about them. Share them. Most men, on the other hand, prefer to ignore them. Hide them. Not express them. Maybe cuz they fear that if they are in touch with them so much that they'd become more sensitive and emotional, which is something they may try to avoid. Many think that it's 'less manly'. And most believe that expressing them makes them 'vulnerable'. They don't like that. Therefore, they ignore and avoid sharing them etc.

I dunno, am just sharing some ideas.

Shoush said...

Sometimes they do express, or create emotions, to capture female attention cuz they think that woman like sensitive men. Other times they express their emotions cuz they trust the person with their emotions. Madri. More thots.

powder said...

shoush i kind of understood what u said , i guess we will never know until they tell us :D

Meticulous said...

most of the time theyre not feeling anyting.
zain mina etha he can plan 2 minutes in advance
tabeen feelings Oo emotions Oo e3abir..smila 3alaiih!
too much work.

powder said...

lol :P

eshda3wa said...

society teaches men to be hard.
any feelings u show is a sign of weakness

min whma babies if they cry u say 3aib inta rayal.

Ansam said...

they're from Mars

Unknown said...

i think it's just hard for them to translate their feelings into words.